I'm starting a blog to raise awareness in my school and community about breast cancer. My aunt died last summer from breast cancer so I can talk about how her death and the illness affected my life, but I need some more stories to add. Does anyone have a personal story of how breast cancer affected their life or the life of someone they know that I can use? Thanks!
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Hi Rebeca There is a great group of us Lady's here with breast cancer survivor story's at the yahoo breast cancer support group. We should be able to help you there so you will have a lot of new and old story's. Have been fighting breast cancer since 1993 and Keep on fighting.
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I have been in remission from breast cancer for over five years. If there is anything you would like to ask me, please feel free to email me. One thing I would ask of you, as you're raising awareness in your school: Every day there are questions on this board from teenagers terrified that they have breast cancer. Many of them have clearly had an education session on breast cancer, and then have worried themselves sick fearing that they have symptoms. Whoever has been giving them information about cancer has neglected to tell them that their chances of having it are just about zero - breast cancer is almost unheard of in under 25s and fewer than 0.1% of all those diagnosed are under 30; only 5% are under 40 and 80% are over 50. The average age at diagnosis is a little over 60. Spread the word and stop the worry. Good luck with your blog.
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There is a good one at http://anaximperator.wordpress.com/about-you/, made by someone who went through surgery and chemotherapy. The blog owner is polite, and will possibly be able to help you further in your search.
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If you go to www.after-cancer.com this website was set up by someone who had breast cancer, and was worried about lack of information. Some humour, advice and lots of contacts. Verite
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It was December of 07. We were in the middle of going to see her my wife's parents in Yuma. My wife noticed a lump in her breast but through all the travel plans forgot about it. Now it is June 25th 08. A cyst developed where she remembered a lump had been earlier. She goes into the doctor and they take tests. My wife tells me the doctor thinks she may have cancer. It is Friday and we don't get the results until about Thursday. Somebody from the lab calls and gives us the news and then it starts. A whirlwind of activity. We tell her parents on July 4th after a party, but I did not feel like celebrating. We go in for more tests, I take time off of work to not miss any doctor's appointments. It seems like it is in one office then another and still another. Days are spent in waiting rooms, and hospitals. MRI, CT Scans, and tests with radiation drinks, and some I cannot remember. So far we do not have anyone besides her doctor and she gives us the name of a surgeon that can see us in like a half hour. The charts say the tumor is the size of a fifty-cent piece and it has tentacles like an octopus. Three lymph nodes are involved. The breast cannot be saved. ( I am in shock, and scared, but I have been that way since I found out). He does not know yet if they will do surgery or radiation. But an oncologist is recommended. We see her on the condition that we get a port put into her chest area for administrating drugs and doing blood draws. We find out her oncologist is one of the top in our area so that is a blessing. It is decided to reduce the size of the tumor with chemotherapy. I went to the pharmacy to get the drugs. All but one was covered. It was the one she needed me to inject her with each day (to boost white blood cells). I asked them how much did it cost that my insurance did not want to pay for it. Costs was $12,976.00. This was for a weeks supply of the drug. I almost fainted because we needed 15 weeks of the drug. I was almost in tears. Fighting cancer will wipe out our bank account. Luckily they gave me a weeks supply and that long to get my insurance company to pay for the drugs. Our oncologist called the company and insisted they pay for it. So they did and all we had to do was pay $200.00 a month for it. A blessing! After 15 weeks of chemotherapy, she suffered the side effects of it, including losing her hair about the 4th treatment. Then got ready for the surgery. A total mastectomy. I learned how to do the drain. The nurse said I did it so well that I could do the rest of the patients for her that day. I said, "NO THANKS!". The results from the mastectomy showed that the cancer was about the size of a small grain of rice that remained in her breast, and that only one lymph node showed any cancer the size of a grain of rice too and that it did not seem to have broken into the blood system. So the best results for us. More chemotherapy 12 weeks of Taxol. This made her fingers and toes numb. After that 6.5 weeks of daily radiation treatments. This was HELL. My wife has very fair skin. The radiation burns were severe and painful. Week after week of her skin blistered badly. The blisters would ooze. I would find my wife curled up in bed in a ball crying because it hurt so bad. All through this I had to return to work. My wife was the major wage earner, so I had to work 50-60 hours a week and my mind would only be on my wife. God blessed us with a cat. An orange tabby that would curl up with my wife and help her. If not for the cat I would be leaving her all alone. Her parents left after surgery to go to Arizona, so I felt deserted. But they did offer to pay the mortgage on our condo till my wife could work again. It has been about three months since her last radiation treatments and about six months since her chemotherapy. She suffers from numbness, and chemo-brain. She needs to do twice daily massages to her lymph nodes to move the fluids in her body. She wears something to keep her arm from swelling. She has not returned to work. I am now working 50+ hours in a hotel. It is a worry in the back of my mind, "What if the cancer returns?" So, I try and not think that and take each day one at a time. I am thinking about going horseback riding with her because she liked doing it when she was a girl. But to tell you the truth. Last night all she did was cry in my arms for the longest time. There is a lot of pain physical and mental that cancer does to a person. They say that it takes a year to suffer a loss. You need to experience the loss associated with each season. Summer, Fall, Winter, and Spring. Reconstruction is up to her, I told her that I love her Just As She is. Forever
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