Wednesday, October 28, 2009

where can i find a Breast Cancer Charities that will help us

where can i find a Breast Cancer Charities that will help us?
my mother is diagnosed with stage 4 Breast Cancer and already undergone operation last december 2009 the doctor said she will have a 2 or 3 months to live but thank God shes still alive until now but shes now bed ridden and fighting the cancer within her. her only medicine is pain killers because we cant afford the oral chemo the doctor prescribed us thats why im hoping theres charities who will help us. if you know a charity please help us.
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I would definatly start with the american cancer society. If they can't help you then they may be able to refer you to someone who can. Sometimes, if people qualify, the drug company will supply the medication at little or no cost, but that would be something that would be initiated within your mom's doctor's office. So, 1 call ACS, then call her doctor's office :) Hope this helps. Good luck!
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I would do as Jess says and if that fails try contacting the pharmaceutical company direct. I knew a woman who did that and had luck with it. Good luck, I hope you get what she needs.
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This is what really makes me angry. Why do they make us pay so damn much money for medication desperately needed. It's so wrong. Like the first person said, try the American Cancer Society. I belong to the Susan G. Koman foundation or organization for breast cancer awareness. Now, I'm not sure if they can help you, but go on to their site and see if they can. Ask your mom's Dr who can help you. Doesn't she have insurance? They should help pay for this medication. My insurance paid and I only had a co-pay. I didn't take any chemo pill like Tamoxifen, I refused. I still have that old prescription on my fridge but if your mom needs it, it should be available to her. Can you ask family members to help you buy this drug? I feel awful that she can't or you can't pay for this. Ask your town. Ask anywhere, start with the town hall, There is help out there. A lot of people don't realize how much help is out there, you have to do some leg work. I wish your mom the best. Blessings ADD I just received a letter in the mail from the Breast Cancer Society. I thought of you as soon as I read it. this woman named Rhonda was a member. Here is a quote from her that was on her picture. TBCS has been there with me, offering their assistance every step of the way from the Christmas check to literally holding my hand in the hospital before and after surgery.. Taking my mother and children to and from the airport, getting me groceries and so much more..." I think this could be an answer for you. As I read on, I could see how people really like them. I never heard of this society before. I guess there's always a reason unexpected things happen. It also says in the pamphlet that the breast Cancer Society is providing direct help to individuals and families. This help gives hope and hope is essential in winning the battle and becoming a survivor." I might add that the woman Rhonda lost her battle but they continued helping her family until they got back on their feet. They are located in Ohio. Here is the address; Breast Cancer Society PMB 283-Gift Processing. MA 3971 Hoover RD. Grove City, OH 43123-2839 The National Headquarters are in Meza, AZ. I can't find the web site for them but I'm sure if you just use the information I gave you, you will find it. Hope this helps you a lot

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Saturday, October 24, 2009

Would a small "Pink Ribbon" breast cancer tattoo on my wrist affect getting a job in an elementary school

Would a small "Pink Ribbon" breast cancer tattoo on my wrist affect getting a job in an elementary school?
I'm young and in college to be an elementary school teacher. I lost two family members and almost a third to breast cancer in the past few years so in their memory, I wanted to get a small 1/4 of an inch pink ribbon on my right wrist. Because it would be so small and it is a well known symbol, would it affect my future career possibilities?
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any tatoo could have reprecusions i guess. but being on ur wrist u could cover it up for school with a watch so not to draw attention to it. alternitivly why not get it in a place where it wont be on show the whole time ?
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Well I don't know where you come from but where I come from (Scotland) you would be hard pressed to find a tattoo artist that would give you a tattoo on your hands mainly because they do not want to be responsible for people getting discriminated against. For example my brother in law has loads of tattoos but none on his hands because he said it seriously decreases your chances of getting employed. However, since your tattoo is for a good cause it would be wrong of your employers to discriminate against you.
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Every tattoo will in some way, depending on the matter of personal opinions around you. A small tattoo should be fine. I know many teachers who have them. Also, on your wrist is an only partly revealed area, some people wont even notice. This tattoo seems important to you, so go ahead and get it. People will understand, and as the symbol is well known and important, some people will even find it beautifully touching. Good luck!
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Probably not, cause I know a teacher who got a Steeler Logo Tatoo on the back on her neck, Get it after you get the job
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I would say that if I were you and took teaching serious I would'nt do it. I'm a truck driver and I have them on my hand, arm, chest, ect. and nobody gives a crap. But people have different expectations of a teach. If ,however, u just have 2, I would put it on an upper shoulder where it would only be seen if i wore a strapless dress, bikini top or something. I kind of agree with the first ans. you recieved but the ultimate decision to do it will be up to u! I don't care what anyone tells u it (tattoo) cheapens you. For instance, if you were a pro model, i'm sure there would be go sees that would'nt be able to use you because of it -You ever see any tattoos on Tyra Banks girls on Am next top model?
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sorry to hear about your lost. it could affect your future career but you can easily cover it up with a bracelet or a watch dont worry ull be fine :)
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That depends on the school. With pink being such a light color, consider someplace that gets less sun exposure.
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Many teachers these days have tattoos. Obviously you have to be cautious as to what you get, but a small, significant tattoo of something important that most people know its meaning isn't going to be looked down upon. For example, my friend fully intends to be a teacher and has "love is all you need" on her wrist. It's bigger, but she volunteers at childrens organizations, and has met many professionals and they look at her value as a person over her tattoo because she is so friendly. However, I would suggest you get it on your left hand because you shake hands with your right hand, and there's less of a chance for an employer to notice. If it were me, as others suggest, I would wear a bracelet for interview day. Good luck!
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Something that small would more than likely not even be seen by anyone. I say go for it!
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Any visibal tattoo could. I would call diffrent schools and ask them. Big bracelets and wrist bands can be used to cover them while your at work, so can band aids and sleves. If you do it make sure you can cover it easly just in case and with a little luck hopfully you will be able to find a school that will alow you to show it

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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Im 18 and am scared that i have breast cancer after finding 2 lumps!! Can i have kids if it is cancer

Im 18 and am scared that i have breast cancer after finding 2 lumps!! Can i have kids if it is cancer?
My mum got breast cancer at 35, her sister then got it at 39. I have found 2 lumps which are in exact same place as my aunties and am scared this could be cancer. Have been to GP who has referred me to Breast clinic. I'm scared im never going to be able to be a mother! Can anyone help or let me know what they think? Thanks
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Yes cancer atk and age doesn't matter
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yes... but if you have cancer try to resolve that issue first. You cant get chemotherapy if you are pregnant.
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having breast cancer, and surviving it, does not mean that you cannot become a mother. i know many people that have had babies after surviving cancer. perhaps you might not be able to breastfeed- you would have to check with your doctor on that one- but you will still be able to get pregnant. lets hope and pray that they only find cysts, and you will be ok-ok? God bless.
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Don't get yourself too worked up...wait to see what the Dr.s and tests have to say. Even if the lumps are cancerous, you could still very well have children someday! Again - please calm down and take it one step at a time. Write a list of all your questions and worries, take it to your Dr. when you see her/him next and pose those questions to them. They are the experts for a reason. I wish you the best of luck!!
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the thing with hving kids while you have cancer is the damage that the chemo can do to a fetus while inside your body. I think it was christina applegate who was diagnosed with breast cancer and is delaying chemo treatment (even though it may kill her) so she can protect her fetus from the chemo. Also, many many women have natural hard spots inside their breasts, its simply a mass of the tissue tht a bit harder than the fatty outer breast. Ease your fears and get a mammogram, the sooner its detected the better chance you have of coming out of it healthy. also keep in mind that mothers do not have to be biologically related to the children that they raise. if you really want to be a mother there are plenty of kids who need families out there.
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I found a lump at age 17 and was scared, too. It was not cancer and I lived with the lump for several years before I decided to have it removed for my own piece of mind. The MOST important thing is to get to the doc and get an early diagnosis. It is easier to treat something small, than to wait to long and allow it grow. I have known people that have gone through the entire treatment process and had children after that. It is definitely possible! It is very natural to be scared and concerned and to have a zillion questions. Take it one step and one decision at a time. Only God knows our future. All we can do is take the best possible care of ourselves as we can. I pray for your health and a good result to your upcoming testing. Hugs and best wishes!!!
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Do not panic , there are so many break throughs in the research of cancer and treatments less that 15% of woman who have breast cancer need chemotherapy. You should also research fibroid tumors. that is what I had when I was diagnosed incorrectly best wishes and GOD BLESS

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